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Lillian Mworeko

The extraordinary power of ordinary women

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Lillian Mworeko

Executive Director, International Community of Women Living with HIV Eastern Africa (ICWEA)

Uganda

When I was diagnosed with HIV, I received no kind of counselling from the hospital about what my new diagnosis meant, and no information about what I could do about it. The response of many people who had been close to me was to blame and shame me. Broken emotionally and financially, I had to leave my home.

I was brought back from isolation and despair because of the warmth and solidarity of other women living with HIV. The help and support from community-led organizations enabled me to share my fears and anxieties and to get strength and support to move forward. Being part of them also raised my awareness of what was happening to other women living with HIV. Holding each other and working together.

“The community of women living with HIV continues to drive transformational changes for our community in ways no one else can.”

“We women living with HIV cannot be leaders alone—only together with each other.”

-Lillian

Women understand our own bodies. We understand the things that are going on around us that affect our vulnerability to HIV and our ability to access the services we need. Our insight and our determination have enabled organizations of women living with HIV to have a profound and continuing effect in reshaping the global response to HIV.

This role was not handed to us. Women had to fight for our place at the table. And we had to navigate for ourselves how to connect our engagement in our districts with our advocacy in our national capitals and in decision-making platforms in Geneva, New York and Washington. If we had not, everything would have already been decided by the time programmes reached us.

We learned that when people are challenging the status quo, it can be easy for the powerful to break an individual person. It is not so easy to break a movement.


A shift towards the approach we called for has helped reduce the rates of vertical HIV transmission.

The initial assumption made about ordinary women living with HIV is that we are ignorant. But when we have reshaped policies, those policies have worked more effectively. Efforts to prevent mother-to-child transmission offer a perfect example of the power of women’s leadership. For years, when it came to trying to prevent children from acquiring HIV, women living with HIV were treated only as transmitters of disease, not as people in our own right. It was as if things needed to be done to us—not with us, or by us.

But this held back progress in preventing new HIV infections among children. Women living with HIV stepped into the breach. Because authorities were not supportive of our efforts, we needed to organize to push for this support. Recognizing women at the very centre of these efforts, we argued, would help advance gains in preventing new HIV infections among children. Mothers living with HIV were best positioned to understand how to help other mothers. Women knew how to provide trusted information to other women, to understand the complicated life situations, and to offer practical solutions that mothers could use to protect their own health and the health of their newborns.

They know that we will always be their allies, and we know that they will always be ours.

In my many years as a community organizer and AIDS advocate, I have seen countless overconfident decision-makers attempt to roll out new technologies or approaches without listening to women—and then fail. In contrast, programmes shaped by women living with HIV have been at the heart of breakthroughs. From ensuring appropriate treatment for pregnant women to expanding access to prevention, women living with HIV spoke up, and helped to demand and to inform rigorous studies, to ensure services succeeded in their public health goals.

Just as we have learned that women are more powerful when we work together, we have also learned that the communities most affected by HIV have a greater ability to influence decisions when we work together. This is why different movements have brought our struggles together. This is why, as an organization led by women living with HIV, we speak out in support of the rights and services of all key populations and of adolescent girls and young women.

We have learned too the art of finding out who in authority is or could be our friend to work together to effect change. We have been inspired by people in authority who have recognized that a determined civil society is not an obstacle to public health planning but the way to ensure public health planning succeeds.

“I would like to encourage them to help share the exciting good news—that there is a path that end AIDS, with communities leading the way.”

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